Soulful Wahine

Episode 3: Why Do I Feel Guilty For Choosing Myself?

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Have you ever made a decision that was right for you… but still felt guilty afterward?

In this episode, we’re talking about why choosing yourself can feel so uncomfortable, especially if you’ve spent years prioritizing everyone else’s needs before your own.

We’ll explore where that guilt comes from, why guilt isn’t always a sign that you’ve done something wrong, and how healing often asks us to disappoint the version of ourselves that believed love had to be earned through self-sacrifice.

If you’ve ever struggled to set boundaries, felt responsible for everyone else’s emotions, or questioned whether choosing yourself makes you selfish, this conversation is for you.

🤎 If this episode resonated with you, please know that you are not alone and that you are seen here.